It
was my 12th Christmas, and it took place in the center of my
universe:
Greentown, Indiana—a town of about a thousand
people.
Though there have more than a half-century of
them
since, I still remember the key events of that particular
season
that taught me the most about the Christmas message.
Part
One
It
started one day as my dad and I were on our front porch
and
putting the new Christmas Tree on a stand. As usual,
we
needed to cut off a few small branch pieces at the bottom
to
make the tree fit into the holder.
While
we were doing this Mrs. Rogers was walking by and
asked
if she could have some of the small pieces we had cut off.
Her
plan was to put one of them into a flowerpot and make a
little
Christmas tree for her house.
It’s
important to note that Mrs. Rogers was short, dumpy, had
very
wrinkled skin, hair best described as mottled, and every
third
tooth was missing. I remember she was
always
smiling
and happy, though.
She
did ironing for our family and others in the town. I
Remember
asking my mother one day why we hired Mrs.
Rogers
to do the ironing. We even had a new-fangled gadget
called
an “automatic iron”, similar to what one finds in
professional
cleaning establishments. My mother said
Mrs.
Rogers needed the money very badly, and this was
a
way for her to get it.
Part
Two
One
reason our Christmas trees always looked so good is
Because
my father was a member of the American Legion,
and
they were the big tree sellers in the town. It was an annual
fund-raising
event for them and one perk is that Legionnaires
always
got the best trees first.
One
place where the trees were sold was a gas station near to
my
house.
One
day I was on my front porch when I saw a young
man
from my school acting strangely near the trees that were
for
sale. Suddenly his father put a tree in the back of his car and
the
two of them drove off. I then realized the man hadn’t paid
for
the tree and his son was acting as a lookout.
I
immediately ran into my house and told my mother we must
call
the town marshal for someone had just stolen a Christmas
tree!
My mother, though, had a different idea. Let’s wait
until
your dad gets home and talk to him about it.
Great!
Dad would really be mad and I’d be a hero for uncovering
The
“crime of the century”.
Well,
dad was upset all right, but not for the reasons I thought.
He
was very unhappy because the man hadn’t come to dad and
say
he wanted a tree and didn’t have the money. He was also
very
unhappy that the man had used his son to help with the
theft.
For
the first time ever I saw a compassion in my father I
didn’t
know existed until that Christmas season.
Part
Three
The
next part of this story involves the first time I remember
hearing
the carol “O Holy Night”. It was a very special time and
I
remember it as though it was just last Christmas.
We
had a brand new school gymnasium. As anyone in Indiana
knows,
high school basketball was a key ingredient to a
community’s
culture. The town only had a thousand
residents,
but the basketball gym held twice that many.
We
didn’t really have a football team then, so the band did
most
of its marching in the gym during basketball half-times.
(Being
a small school helped. Not a lot of space was
required.)
But
on this particular evening the choir did the half-time
presentation.
And at one point they were all in the shape of a
Christmas
tree, holding small red and green lights, and the
gymnasium
went completely dark—except for the “tree”
lights.
And then I heard the choir and a soloist (I still
remember
her name) sing “O Holy Night”.
I
remember asking several people what that song was, and
wondering
why I had never heard it before. But the tune
and
many of the words were imbedded in my brain from that
moment.
And all of the memories aren’t just Christmas ones.
Years
later as I would march andsing “We Shall
Overcome”
and other similar songs, I always remembered the words from that
carol:
“Truly He taught us to love one another.”
Part
Four
The
fourth and final part of the memory came the next night,
Christmas
Eve. My father had a store downtown and they were
always
open on Saturday nights. I had been at the store on some
errand
and was getting ready to go home when my dad said I
should
go to one of the places selling trees, find the best one,
and
take it to Mrs. Rogers’ house.
I’m
sure I had a big grin because I remember the smile on my
dad’s
face, which was his reaction to my reaction. Again, I
began
to see a different side to my father than I knew existed.
I
went to the tree lot and picked a tree very carefully, and then
began
walking the few blocks to where Mr. and Mrs. Rogers
lived.
It was a warm evening and my jacket was open.
Each
year a great aunt would always give me an envelope at
Christmas
and inside would either be a two-dollar bill or two
one-dollar
bills. This year it was two new and crisp dollar bills.
Before
getting to the Rogers’s home I took those two dollars
out
of my wallet and put them in the tree where they would
easily
be seen, but not right away.
I
knocked and Mr. Rogers opened the door. I suddenly couldn’t
speak
and just held up the tree. “Is that for us?” he asked. I just
nodded
and smiled for speaking wasn’t possible for meat that
moment.
And then he smiled.
More
than a half-century has passed and to this day I can vividly
remember
that man’s joyous expression representing the pleasure
of
receiving a real Christmas tree. The fact that it was a leftover
tree
didn’t matter. All that mattered to that man was that
someone
cared enough to share it.
I
never told my father about giving away the two dollars
(at
a time when Coca-Cola and candy bars sold for a nickel
each).
Sometimes I wonder what smile was on Mr. Rogers’
face
when he found the money.
And
here’s what we call the “kicker” to the story.
As
I left that house to go home they began playing Christmas
music
on the public address system of the nearby Methodist
Church.
The music was always chimes, and it was on records.
On
that very warm Christmas Eve in 1955 I again heard the tune
that was playing in
my head
from a few nights before.
Whenever
I still hear that lovely melody I still remember about a
young
boy who learned his father had compassion and how he
found
a strange joy in giving much of what he had to someone
who
didn’t have anything.
Bruce Taylor suggested I check out your blog and I'm glad I did. You're a gifted writer and I look forward to reading more of your work. I hope you'll pay me a visit sometime. Take care.
ReplyDeleteThat was a grand story. Thanks for sharing your memories.
ReplyDeleteDelightful story. That's one of the beauties of this season—that people drop their normal defensiveness and aggression and behave with compassion. Pity we normally don't maintain that attitude year round.
ReplyDeleteAlso, you write very well. I hope you keep blogging.
ReplyDeleteWhat a nice story Roger. Thank you for sharing such a personal moment of your life with us.
ReplyDeleteThe "Christmas Spirit" well captured in your memories...Thanks!
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